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episode 105: fight fair

Are you opting-out of the office politics in your organization because it feels manipulative? Did you know that you can learn to play the game and be politically savvy and stay true to your own principles?
 
You’ll learn that learning to navigate office politics with integrity can enhance your professional reputation and build your credibility.
 
WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER
  • Why integrity and trust are fundamental to any professional relationship that’s going to last
  • 4 strategies to help you thrive while becoming more politically savvy
  • How learning to handle the inevitable conflicts that arise whenever we work with people can significantly impact your career

Welcome to the Stop Sabotaging Your Success podcast, episode one hundred and five. I’m your host, Cindy Esliger. This is the podcast focusing on what we can do today to take control of our careers and overcome the inevitable barriers to success that we encounter along the way. 

Office politics is an unavoidable aspect of professional life, existing in virtually every workplace. It involves the strategies and maneuvers people employ to gain influence, recognition, or career advancement within an organization. While the term often carries a negative connotation, engaging in office politics with integrity can be a strategic and ethical approach to navigating the complex corporate landscape. 

In this episode, we explore the best ways of playing office politics with integrity because being politically savvy can have a positive impact on your career advancement potential by building trust and credibility with those with the power to make career-altering decisions. It’s also important to learn to protect yourself from those willing to engage in somewhat questionable practices in the workplace in order to further their own agendas. 

Office politics is pervasive, reflecting the inherent competition for limited resources, recognition, and promotions within a corporate setting. Those you work with on a daily basis may engage in various tactics such as forming alliances, managing perceptions, or strategically positioning themselves to gain favor with influential figures. The prevalence of office politics in your organization may be influenced by the workplace culture and the leadership styles of those in the senior ranks. Recognizing and understanding the dynamics of office politics is crucial for anyone with ambition. 

Playing office politics with integrity involves navigating the political landscape while adhering to your own ethical principles. It is about making strategic decisions that align with your values, foster collaboration, and establish professional relationships. Engaging in office politics with integrity can have several positive impacts on your career advancement potential. And here are four benefits just to get you thinking along these lines: 

  1. Builds trust and credibility
  2. Enhances your professional reputation
  3. Strengthens your interpersonal relationships
  4. Mitigates risks and challenges

Integrity is a cornerstone of trust, and trust is fundamental to professional relationships and building your credibility. When we approach office politics with integrity, we prioritize honesty, transparency, and ethical behavior. This commitment to integrity builds trust among colleagues and bosses, creating a foundation for positive collaboration. Trust is a valuable currency in the workplace, and those who consistently demonstrate integrity in their actions are more likely to be entrusted with responsibilities, high profile projects, and leadership roles. 

Showing integrity in playing the game of office politics enhances your professional reputation. Colleagues and leaders are more likely to view those who navigate office politics with honesty and fairness as reliable and credible team members. A strong professional reputation can open doors to new opportunities, more interesting projects, and promotions, as organizations value employees who consistently demonstrate the ability to get the job done without the drama.

Becoming politically savvy involves treating colleagues with respect, empathy, and fairness. Building strong interpersonal relationships is essential for effective collaboration and teamwork. Professionals who prioritize integrity in their political strategies are more likely to form positive connections with colleagues, creating a supportive network within the organization. 

It’s also about recognizing the potential risks and challenges that abound. By maintaining ethical standards, we can reduce the likelihood of being entangled in behaviors that can lead to reputational damage or other unpleasant consequences. Integrity serves as a safeguard against compromising situations, allowing professionals to navigate the political landscape with confidence and resilience. 

While engaging in office politics with integrity can yield positive outcomes, the consequences of unethical practices are severe and can have lasting effects on both individuals and the organization as a whole. Here are just three of those negative impacts to consider: 

  1. Reputational damage
  2. Erosion of team morale
  3. Toxic organizational culture

Participating in questionable behavior such as spreading rumors, sabotaging colleagues, or manipulating information can result in severe reputational damage. Once trust is compromised, rebuilding a positive reputation becomes challenging, hindering career advancement, and getting in the way of being able to build those professional relationships we all need to succeed. 

When a lack of integrity is the norm in the workplace, it can create a toxic environment, eroding team morale and cohesion. When people prioritize personal gain over more ethical considerations, it creates a culture of mistrust, fear, and animosity among colleagues. This negative atmosphere can impede collaboration, innovation, and overall team effectiveness. 

When organizations tolerate this behavior and people know there are no consequences, this can lead to a high turnover rate. People disengage and the overall organizational culture can suffer. In the long run, this can impact the company’s ability to attract top talent and maintain a positive reputation in the industry because people talk. Word of mouth spreads like wildfire. 

Those who find themselves on the receiving end of unsavory office politics may experience stress, anxiety, and a decline in job satisfaction. Unfair treatment or manipulation can create a hostile work environment, negatively affecting our mental and emotional well-being. Such experiences may prompt us to disengage or seek employment elsewhere, resulting in the loss of valuable talent for the organization. 

Becoming more politically savvy is a strategic necessity. The secret is to adopt strategies that empower us to “fight fair” without compromising our own principles. In a professional landscape, where opportunistic behavior is likely to be encountered, it’s essential to understand that mastering the art of fair and strategic engagement is crucial for maintaining a principled approach in the face of workplace challenges. Therefore, putting into place some strategies that allow us to navigate office politics with integrity becomes imperative for a balanced and successful career journey. 

Here are four strategies to help you thrive in the complex landscape of office politics: 

  1. Build strategic alliances: Understand who the key players are by identifying the influential people within your organization and the impact they have on decision-making processes. Establish genuine relationships with your colleagues, bosses, and direct reports. Seek common ground, demonstrate empathy, and show genuine interest in their perspectives and goals. Actively participate in cross-functional teams and projects. By contributing to shared objectives, you can demonstrate your value and build alliances with people from different departments. You just never know when that might come in handy. 
  2. Effectively communicate: Transparency helps establish trust and dispel misconceptions that may arise in a politically charged environment, so communicate your ideas clearly. Pay attention to the concerns and viewpoints of others. Actively listening allows you to understand the dynamics at play, identify potential challenges, and address any misconceptions before they escalate. Tailor your communication style to resonate with different personalities and preferences. Understanding how to effectively convey your message to various stakeholders enhances your ability to influence and garner support for your ideas.
  3. Create strategic visibility: Ensure your hard work and accomplishments are visible to key decision-makers by providing regular updates on your projects and highlighting the positive impact your work is having on the organization. Volunteer for initiatives that align with organizational goals and have high visibility. This positions you as a proactive contributor to the success of the company. Connect with mentors within your organization who can provide guidance on navigating the personalities involved. Their insights can help you understand the unwritten rules and offer advice on how to effectively position yourself and who to watch out for. 
  4. Be adaptable and flexible: Embrace the changes happening within your organization because they will continue to happen at a rapid pace. Demonstrating flexibility and resilience positions you as an asset to the company and someone who can navigate dynamic environments. Recognize shifts in the power dynamics and be prepared to adapt your strategies accordingly. Staying attuned to the organizational changes allows you to align your actions with evolving priorities. If you encounter setbacks or face challenges, which I’m sure you will, try to view them as opportunities for growth. Reflect on the situation, learn from the experience, and adjust your approach accordingly. 

Contrary to popular belief, actively participating in office politics does not mean sacrificing your integrity, which is a good thing since opting-out of the game is not a strategy for success. Instead, position yourself for career advancement while maintaining your ethical principles by learning to play the game in a way that sits well with you. 

Workplace conflicts are inevitable in the dynamic landscape of professional environments whenever there are people involved. Generally, it’s not the technical issues that cause disagreements, it’s the way people behave or the words they choose. Adopting strategies for handling conflicts diplomatically becomes paramount, underscoring the need to resolve disagreements with professionalism and grace because the way we handle disagreements can significantly impact our careers and the overall work atmosphere. People are watching. 

Here are four strategies for handling those inevitable conflicts in the right way:

  1. Actively listen: Those around you may see things differently, so pay attention to their concerns and perspectives. Demonstrate empathy by paraphrasing their statements to clarify your own understanding. This helps build trust and facilitates a more constructive dialogue. 
  2. Choose the right time and place: Timing is crucial in addressing conflicts. Choose an appropriate time and private setting to discuss the issues at hand, ensuring that your own emotions can be managed so that a productive conversation can take place. 
  3. Focus on the issue, not the person: Ensure that the discussion centers around the specific problem at hand rather than deteriorating into personal attacks. Separating the person from the problem helps to reach a more objective resolution and keeps the animosity from growing. 
  4. Involve others in finding a solution: Brainstorm the potential solutions together to encourage a more collaborative approach to problem-solving by fostering a sense of ownership and commitment to the resolution process. Recognize that this may involve compromise. Be open to solutions that address the concerns of everyone involved, even if they differ from your initial expectations. 

It’s important to try to resolve your own disagreements in order to preserve those professional relationships you’ve put the time into building. Resolving conflicts with integrity preserves trust among colleagues. It demonstrates a commitment to honesty and fairness, which are foundational elements for maintaining any relationship. People who handle conflicts with grace and integrity do wonders for their professional reputation. They are more likely to be viewed as reliable, trustworthy, and effective team members by those they work with.

Every conflict presents an opportunity for learning. We can all gain valuable insights, develop resilience, and improve our conflict resolution skills, no matter how long we’ve been at this game. Resolving conflicts with integrity involves adapting your communication style to effectively address the needs and preferences of your audience. It isn’t about how you prefer to communicate, it’s how best they will receive your message.

Those who handle conflicts in a professional manner set a positive example for those around them. This behavior can contribute to maintaining a healthier work environment that values open communication, collaboration, and mutual respect. A positive culture reduces stress, fosters job satisfaction, and enhances the overall well-being for everyone in your organization. Be the one to set the tone for what is acceptable and what is not.

Decide what you will tolerate and what you won’t, and then set professional boundaries to protect yourself. Recognize that we are all entitled to establish our own personal limits. Setting boundaries involves recognizing and acknowledging when to say no, delegate tasks, or seek support to avoid burnout. This all helps to maintain our own high standards of work output. Establishing boundaries at work also ensures that you have some form of personal life outside of the office. This balance is crucial for preventing work-related stress from negatively impacting your overall quality of life and those closest to you. 

Setting clear boundaries enables us to prioritize our own tasks effectively, allowing us to focus on high priority activities, and reducing the likelihood of being overwhelmed by an excessive workload. Time management is an essential skill. By establishing limits around work hours, we can manage our time, energy, and attention more effectively. Keeping some in reserve to do the things we enjoy outside of work, which in turn can result in increased productivity and better work outcomes. It all works together. 

Setting boundaries is a form of self-advocacy that contributes to maintaining professional dignity and self-respect. It demonstrates to others how you expect to be treated in the workplace. This proactive approach helps prevent misunderstandings and sets the standard for the level of respect you expect to be shown.

Building a supportive network and identifying your key allies can really shore up your resilience, especially during challenging times. Seek advice from people with different experiences and viewpoints to enhance the guidance and insights you have to work with in navigating your own workplace challenges. This can help you decide how best to approach specific challenges and be receptive to the constructive criticism that is so valuable for your professional development.

Remember, a supportive network is a two-way street. Be willing to offer your support and guidance to others within your network when they face challenges because no one is immune. This mutual support strengthens professional relationships and builds a sense of community. 

Leverage the insights of those around you to better understand organizational politics. Their experience may be different from yours and give you a different perspective on navigating complex power dynamics and direction for where to focus on building strategic alliances. Sometimes, just knowing that others are facing similar challenges and have successfully navigated them can boost your confidence and resilience. 

Engaging with integrity is a strategic approach that can significantly enhance your career advancement potential by fostering trust and credibility within the professional sphere. Not everyone does this well, so your proficiency will set you apart. Building a reputation for honesty and transparency creates a foundation of trust among those you work with. This trust, in turn, opens doors to opportunities, increased responsibilities, and even potentially promotions. 

In the competitive landscape of the workforce, opting-out of becoming politically savvy is not a wise career move. I know this for a fact because I tried to do just that for a lot of years and it didn’t do a lot for my upward mobility. But learning to engage with integrity allows you to navigate office politics with a certain level of fairness and professionalism, which definitely makes it easier to stomach, rather than trying to outmaneuver or manipulate people to your advantage when that is just not in your nature. 

Learning to “fight fair” in order to protect yourself and maintain your professional composure is crucial for success. It involves actively participating in office politics without compromising your principles. By demonstrating your ability to resolve interpersonal conflicts diplomatically, you will showcase valuable leadership skills. People will take notice of the way you have learned to play the game, since opting-out is not an option if you want to succeed. 

Becoming politically savvy in your organization is a proactive strategy that not only safeguards your well-being, but also positions you for long-term success by earning the trust and respect of those you interact with. It is through this commitment to ethical conduct, combined with the ability to navigate office dynamics with grace and resilience, that we can thrive in our careers without becoming a target for those who engage in unscrupulous practices. 

And that’s it for this episode of Stop Sabotaging Your Success. Remember to download your Guide to Fighting Fair at cindyesliger.com/podcast, episode one hundred and five.

Thank you to our producer, Alex Hochhausen and everyone at Astronomic Audio. Get in touch, I’m on Instagram @cindyesliger and my email address is info@cindyesliger.com.

If you enjoy listening to this podcast, you have to come check out The Confidence Collective. It’s my monthly coaching program where we dig a little deeper into what’s holding you back in your career, and we find the workarounds. We help you overcome the barriers and create the career you want. Join me over at cindyesliger.com/join. I’d love to have you join me in The Confidence Collective

Until next week, I’m Cindy Esliger. Thanks for listening.

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